3 Boys and a Mom - Diary of a Tagteam

Hey have I ever told y'all that E is an asshole??? YEAP He sure is!! Yesterday he is all nice and kind when he calls in the morning then in the afternoon after he's had a few he calls back and is giving me a hard time about Dilen saying he's not allowed to use the phone, there is no phone in his room anymore and he's not allowed in my room when I am not home... Ummmm he is free to use the phone to call, yes there IS a phone in his room (the jack is there) but we went cordless for $10 so the handset is usually in LR and no he's NOT allowed in my room when I am not home - rarely when I AM home for that matter - it's MY room - MY sancuary.... E then proceeds to attempt to ream me for all this - why weren't the kids kept out of the room when he was there and had that rule, what's so special about me? and tells me that as long as he's paying for things Dilen call him whenever on whatever he wants... Ummmm buddy your little chump change that you EVENTUALLY give me each month doesn't pay for everything - doesn't even come close - hell it doesn't even pay for Ethen's daycare in full so don't go tell me how I am going to run MY house.... I just hung up on him repeatedly (don't know it's him til I answer)... Well instead of getting the message that I will NOT be talked to/yelled at like that he calls back with MORE threats - 1st it's that he's gonna call my boss and the general, etc to get me in trouble and then later it's that he's not gonna pay me the support he agreed to (whatever I really don't count on it anyway!) to he's not gonna be taking the kids anywhere/coming to see them to telling me to NEVER call him again.... Hey if you are that ignorant enough to put the kids in the middle and "punish them" because you can't control me then you don't deserve to see them anyway! and hey no sweat off my back not calling you ever again but isn't funny that HE calls ME??? Just today he calls me here at office (AGAIN!) and asks if I am done being rude and am I going to apologize - ummm for what?? I didn't think I was being rude.... He says I was... Soo I very business like ask him - Is there something I can do for you?? He replies "I guess not" and hung up - haven't heard from him since!! YEAH!! Sadly though he will be calling me again tonight or tomorrow once he sobers up a bit and will act like all is well... WHATEVER!! I just continue to live on and make plans as if he doesn't exist!!! Of course it all makes for great entertainment here in the office! *LOL*

Sooo now that I am done with that vent I feel better... Now on to Dilen - who managed to get marked absent yesterday because apparently he dawdled long enough walking from cafeteria to room after breakfast to miss morning head count - although he claims he was in his room but teacher missed him... Who knows - maybe she did.... The boy DOES move slow as molasses some days.... Teacher didn't comment on it though....

We are gearing up for Friday evening - Six Flags opens and I am gonna take the boys!! We are all very excited to be going - I enjoy doing family type things like amusment parks with the boys now that they are older...

Well - I am busy busy here at work doing someone else's job - better get back to it!!! Til next time...